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Jayne Says's avatar

Hi Alan, I loved this one. I'm going to make a post-it of Rev. Yerucham's (z"l) gems. I am in your camp, Camp Spiritual Orphan. Even at Jewish summer camp in the 80s, I was too closed to feel the peace and love of campfire Shabbats. It just didn't make sense that God could be love when my survival seemed to require rejecting the idea. I'm glad I found Mussar, your books and I love these posts.

Debbie Harris's avatar

I definitely believe it’s true. In my case, I never heard of anything like Mussar until I was almost 70. However, by my studies over the last eight years I have begun to realize just how spiritual my life has always been.

I was born with several serious birth defects. I was operated on for one of them when I was only three weeks old; my parents were told not to expect me to survive. Well, guess what? Here I am!

Through the study and, yes, practice of Mussar I have come to realize that at age three weeks I faced my first bechira point, and I chose life! A very spiritual choice, though I never thought of it that way until very recently.

We all have a very spiritual path within us, but due to our lack of education on the subject (I.e. we’re spiritual orphans) we have never been able to appreciate it until recently.

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