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libby kahn's avatar

I read in the Chumash commentary on Parsha Yitro, that, "When people are confident that they are ruled justly, they are at peace, free from resentment and frustration, for people can more easily cope with problems and poverty than with the feelings that people who are more powerful or better connected individuals are taking advantage of them." This is a peace that only comes from wise and trustworthy leadership.

What is this leadership? According to the Torah: Men of accomplishment who are already wealthy and would resist the pressure of those who would attempt influence of their judgment. These are G-d-fearing men who will not be swayed by flattery, bribery, or threats.

Shabbat offers one kind of peace, but the peace people long for will not be felt until the Leadership of America has the qualities cited above.

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To quote a story a Hillel-Shamai story: "Whatever is hateful and distasteful to you, do not do to your fellow man. This is the entire Torah, the rest is commentary. Go learn." Appointing a DHS secretary who shot her own dog suggests what is happening was not an accident or simply acts of overzealous enforcement. It was planned from the start. This is far from the only example or area of concern.

With that said, the principle applies to all people and we need to recognize that regardless of the side at fault. In Canada, Jewish schools have been shot up (when out of session), there have been arson attacks and multiple threats. Bondi beach in Australia was shot up on the first night of Hanukkah in December. In the US we are being pushed out of the Ivies due to nothing but our ethnicity. Polls suggest around half (often more) of Jews in the UK and France want to emigrate due to antisemitism.

It has also been clear to me on a personal level, which actually ties to acting for the good of the community. When I got my first good job, I lost several close friends. They told me that, because the field was male-dominated, the job should have gone to a woman. I had no place there. I needed to get out. In my first three years I excelled and hit a senior contributor level. Despite sterling performance reviews, all opportunities for promotion or even meaningful work dried up. Instead the good projects were allocated to interns and entry-level team members who couldn't reasonably do them well due to lack of experience, simply due to identity group.

I have no opportunity for change, growth or meaningful work. There is no reasonable way for me to contribute through the place I spend the bulk of my waking hours. When I turn to friends for support, the message is that I was not born in a way that should engender support for growth or meaningful contribution here. That isn't my place. Because many of these people are Jewish it drove me away from the community. Is this really somewhere I want to contribute outside of work?

Reading your blog was my way of looking to see if I might be able to come back, if there was a part of the community where I could be wanted for what I can, and want to, do. Whether stated explicitly or not, supporting social justice with no mention of its issues tells me the answer is a clear "no". Stances like these will increasingly drive younger Jewish men like myself away. If there is no place to be accepted in the community, we will find communities where we are accepted. This hurts us, hurts Judaism and does so breaking one of our most basic moral tenets.

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